I was listening to a lecture by Bernie Clarke, the well-known author and Yin Yoga teacher. He shared a story about his student, Fred*, who, for years, was instructed to “bring his feet together parallel” in a yoga pose. But every time Bernie looked up, there was Fred—feet firmly splayed like a ballet dancer in first position, heels together, toes out. Despite Bernie’s relentless efforts to nudge him into the “correct” position, Fred’s feet just wouldn’t cooperate. The answer, it turns out, lay in the unique twists and torsions of Fred’s bones. But this raises many questions: Why was Fred’s body doing this? Why do feet have to be parallel? And what makes a yoga pose “correct”?
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At the end of most of my yoga classes, I close by asking us to take a moment to "thank our bodies for the hard work they have just done and have gratitude for the hard work they do for us every day, all the time, without us even knowing it", or words to that effect.
I don't know about you, but I'm miffed when I can't do a yoga pose. It bugs me when my leg won't neatly slide behind my head and I can't then balance on my index finger. When in reality, the fact that I can even lift a leg is an amazing feat of engineering and yet here I am complaining that it's not high enough.
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